aha

So, i was just musing about why i am enjoying my non-yale friends so much more than the prospect of going back to school. the answer is that other people are easier, namely easier than dealing with "closet" issues, etc. not being the main lifeline for the people at harvard, for example, is no less fun but a lot less work than being at school. so there is that, i guess.
There is also work to be taken into consideration, but that seems minor.